The wonderings of Me, SpaggyB

A lot of people in my life have uttered the three words in a such a particular order that never really had me thinking about the meaning of such a phrase. Already i can tell you that a majority of people will be thinking of the three simple words that automatically spring to mind when one mentions "those three words". I'm sorry to disappoint, but i am obligated to tell you that those words are not the three words that have started these quizzical thoughts that do so run through my mind, although they in themselves are quiet important. I shall talk in further depth to those words when the main interest of this discussion has been clarified and contemplated. So now, i trust you are wondering what three words i am typing about. What other "three words" are there? Let me inform you that there are a great many "three words" in this life of ours. In fact, i just typed one of those words now. i am indeed talking about the phrase

whats so confusing about this? you may ask. I shall tell you. Define "well." I attempt to answer to such a request by answering that in this instance, the word "well" depends upon the individuals personal interpretation of the values, beliefs, morals and opportunities presented in this world today, tomorrow and in the past. So why do people insist we "live life well" and then question our actions on such a request? Hypocrisy perhaps? Or more, unfair judgment? Why request that one "live life well" and then question their definition of the term? I shall leave you to ponder or dismiss this potential contemplation.I shall move on to the other "three words", or more accurately, what they stand for.


Debatabley the strongest word in every human language. but what is it really? Love. An emotion felt by those who feel it. Yet how do you know what you feel? if love is different for every person, then how does one define the concept of love defiantly? Of course, there is the attraction, mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, yet when does attraction and care blossom into love? When you feel for a particular person more that you feel for others? If it hurts so much to be away that you don't know how you can still breathe in and out? When it hurts to be with them because you know that eventually you will part again? According to life in general, love hurts, but they don't clarify what pain it is one feels when in love. Is this pain physical, emotional, mental... or a combination of all perhaps?So when does love become obsession? Is it possible for one to go beyond those confusing feelings of love to become so crazed with longing that a sense of creepiness enters the equation?
I'm not to sure where others stand with these issues. I myself have come to a conclusion on the issue of "love" and i am here to tell you that

a) I have felt what i believe to be love before and
b) for reasons i cannot describe, and therefore cannot compare.

For those of you who read this and disregard it as a lonely girls twisted thoughts of a empty romance with her cyber personality, i am disappointed. For those of you consider those things which i have mentioned, thank you.